Intensives are scheduled according to your individual circumstance to ensure our concentrated attention. A 5-hour Intensive is generally an excellent place to start, however, I also schedule 2 and 3-Day Intensives for deeper work.
I encourage you to use the time following your Intensive to relax and process the intensity of the time we spend together. Many couples spend the evening with each other reviewing the material and going out for a relaxing meal. An Intensive should be viewed as an investment in your relationship and there is no better time than following your Intensive to appreciate the energy that both of you have shown in healing or enriching your relationship. I often provide you with homework that extends past your Intensive to further integrate the work we do during our time together.
A further word here about your Intensive: Whether your intent is to enrich or to heal your relationship, I recommend setting this time aside for you as a couple exclusively. Schedule your Intensive when you are able to comfortably invest the time and energy necessary for each other and away from family and work responsibilities.
As a general guideline the following is my approach to your Intensive: I meet with you separately prior to our Intensive. If you are current clients, this can be done in person, however, if you are coming in from out of town or new to my practice, we can meet on the phone for a short assessment of your needs and at that time, finalize the preparation for your Intensive.