Maintaining a strong emotional and spiritual connection almost guarantees that your sexuality and intimacy will never become dull and boring! Sex involves not only meeting your partner’s physical needs but their emotional, spiritual, and intellectual needs too.
Marriage is God’s best gift; it holds the answer to the existential loneliness that is inherent in human nature. God created us in His own image and we are fundamentally relational beings because He is a relational God. The loneliness that is so pervasive in the world today stems from our loss of connection with both God and our partners.
We live in a “ME” culture and we want what we want. Even therapists influence clients to focus their energy on themselves, asking questions like “What do you want?" Or, “What makes you happy?” when real happiness occurs when we develop the capacity to think more about others than ourselves.
Our goal is to focus on giving love, rather than simply trying to get love.